The Four Drunks
GOD AND THE FOUR DRUNKS
When you take your 4 bodies out for a few
drinks something quite amazing happens to your holistic being. You never go out
alone but often end up very alone. This event can take place gradually and
covertly, or as outright intention. It depends on your purpose for heavy
drinking. The players are all just you ; your 4 aspects ; the bodies ;
Spiritual, Mental, Emotional and Physical. Whether you set out to get blind
drunk or even if you just progressively get drunker and drunker ; the results
are the same.
I feel the Spirit-body has no interest in
alcohol as such, and will have no part in a moon-howling binge ; so when the
Holistic-you chooses to go get drunk the Spirit-body will sit back, disconnect,
and wait for you - usually in the car park. And if you make it back to the car
your Spirit-body is ready to try and
help get you all home.
So when you sit down at the bar and take
your first drink there is only three of you and this may be why you feel a bit
lighter, more relaxed and less burdened. The Spirit-body is missing along with
the responsibility of your synergistic evolution ; and the question of purpose
; and the curiosity to answer that lurking question ; and its unfelt answer
which so many of us are disconnected from, but can still feel and sense. So we feel less burdened or anxious, and
often after the first mouthful will proclaim ; “Aahhh thats better ! I
really needed that ! “
(but did we
really??) So with the spirit body out of
the way its just the 3 drunks.
This leaves the more dominant body in
charge, which is the "smart” one ; the Mental-body.
This could explain why after a few drinks
we suddenly know everything and are compelled to tell everyone about it, often
explaining the debate scenario where intellect and knowledge of unrelated facts
becomes the currency of the moment. This state also allows the ego to step in
and say whatever it likes ; and it does ! This combination in its moderate form
can create a false sense of confidence ; in its extreme form it’s obnoxious and
arrogant. In its milder state it’s often mistaken for being charming and witty.
We all know the confident smart guy that always has a comment to make and will
sarcastically get a laugh out of putting someone down in front of their peers.
This can be with a casual unasked for comment to someone just walking past
; or more personally and intimate with
one of his friends scoring
points against each other ; This is the Mental-body in charge and loving
it, this is not a display of strength and character but more often one of ego
and seduction and in its early and amusing stage some intelligent and mature
women find it quite attractive especially if they’re looking for that
"someone" to be with. “Someone” interesting and exciting, and the 3
body drunk is confident, smart and funny, and if he’s Ok-looking and clean,
he’s in. The seduction is complete. Its only when you get him home, and after
more drinking that his charm and confidence turns into arrogance and attitude,
and in its extreme or final form becomes obnoxious and even violent. When
enough has been drunk that the Mental body cannot function it too leaves, yet
not willingly or easily. It hangs in there probably the longest as it loves the
pseudo control and only lets go when it absolutely has to. Unlike the
Spirit-body who is still out in the carpark ....waiting.
This leaves only two bodies drinking and
the next more dominant body, the Emotional-body takes over. The 2 body drunk
will often appear suddenly as if out of nowhere. I feel this may be due to the
Mental body hanging on for so long, being reluctant to leave, so it goes
suddenly and bang ! - the Emotional body is in charge. This can create the
crying drunk full of woe and self pity. The sobbing fool or the angry and hateful drunk full of
resentment and rage or even the comical drunk who laughs at
everything and just falls over a lot,
This type of emotional drunk is less
prevalent in general and more often expressed by teenagers or young adults who
are a bit immature even when sober. An adult comical drunk will do crazy things
for a laugh like an extreme jester and sometimes do stupid and dangerous things
for a thrill. There seems to be no order of preference with the emotional drunk
they may graduate through all these variations ; be any one singly ; or a
hybrid combination of any emotional condition that is present in the sober 4
body person. This is the more complex drunk and harder to understand, The 2
body drunk is usually a shorter reign, depending on the type-dominant : the crying comical drunk being more passive
doesn’t usually last that long. Whereas the angry hateful drunk being more
aggressive can hang in there for hours, and once the emotional body has had enough,
it too leaves , with the crying drunk it will wind down and step into the last
body the physical just long enough to vomit and pass out ; goodbye and
goodnight. Whereas the comical drunk will often calm down go quiet and sober up
a bit, and then just get drunk again. Ding dong round two.
But with the angry drunk its usually
different. Once the emotional body leaves, you’re left with the physical body
going strong, and often fueled by the stored up anger. This is the 1 body drunk
with the physical being in charge not because it’s dominant, but because
there’s no-one else left to drive except an unqualified pilot. This often
creates the fighting drunk and he really "must fight" and can be
quite dangerous as there hasn’t been any spiritual guidance since you walked
into the pub, and now there’s no intellect to generate reasoning and no emotion
so no empathy or compassion, very much like a crazed Neanderthal who must
fight. Often if he does manage to get his fight he will suddenly transmute into
the must-have-sex type, depending on the buried intent. Violence can be a
strong stimulant to him. He may express both the fight then sex symptom, or
just one of the two, this will also depend on opportunity and availability. In
its extreme form, which is very primal, this type once they've expressed their
outburst will wind down slowly more like an old clock muttering incoherently : “I’m
really sorry” or “ I really really love you. I’m
really really sorry man” and then fall into a deep deep sleep. Whereas
the less extreme type will often get very wobbly like they’re on a boat and
fall over a lot and get up a lot and end up spending hours driving the
porcelain-bus, vomiting and or dry retching for hours and hours until they
black out totally exhausted on the toilet floor.
If you’re lucky, while all this has gone
on, on your night out, the Spirit-body is still in the car park patiently
waiting for all the fun to end, and by now has rounded up the mental and
emotional body and put them in the car. Where all 3 bodies wait for the
physical to re-join them, wherever it is ?? Hopefully fast asleep somewhere in
a drunken vomit-stained coma where it will sleep the night off enough to sober
up and find the other three tomorrow. Yet if it wakes up too early and finds
the car, it will try to drive and possibly kill everyone on the way home.
So
be careful when you do drink, and who you don’t drink with !?
This possibly explains why some people
are their own worst enemies.
This is God and the 4 drunks.
p.s. have fun
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